Comments on: I am 17 a londer with no friends, constantly depressed I think I have social anxiety disorder and I hate life?

By: oddball

oddball — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 01:28:59 +0000

I’m depressed, I have no friends, and don’t like places with people, not even libraries. I like movie theaters though.

How odd, I don’t think I have a disorder, well they say a crazy person does not know it
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By: tercentenary98

tercentenary98 — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 00:49:59 +0000

I was a loner at 17. Not depressed though. I had no friends and many people hated me. I just chalked it up as "Being by myself, I have no one to carry their weight for." I didn’t go for professional help. I worked out my own problems when I thought no one cared.
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By: mad cat

mad cat — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 00:21:59 +0000

YOU CAN TALK TO A PASTOR -

being a loner is not a bad thing you can not get in trouble by your self so who would be there to balm

why are you constantly depressed -start doing things that you like to do -fishing - bowling -hunting - cooking -reading -bible reading -

when people were taken out of bondage they rejoiced -today is the day to rejoice because it belongs to the creator -the moment you were born till the day in death the creator has the control walk with him give it to creator let the creator work things out now .have faith things will be given you in time you want now but the creator gives in his time -some time call on him first and all else will be added there are three answers -yes -no-wait .

get out meet people -have friends over -treat others way you want to be treated -
you are young yet -so some time you craw before you walk in life you fall at 60 so you brush your self off give it to the creator start walking again -do not give up on life-pray -have faith -hang in there
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By: GirlUdontKnow

GirlUdontKnow — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 00:15:59 +0000

If you can’t get professional help - then you are setting yourself up for a tough road. The key is MAKING yourself do the things you fear or are turned off by most, like maybe striking up a conversation with a complete stranger. Go out for physical activity, maybe a walk or something - excercise helps with mood. Also, realize that all the things that pop in your head that put you down, you have to realize it the "depression" putting those ideas in your head, you are not boring and unworthy of have a good time.

Try to find the courage to seek help, you will feel so much better when you have someone you can talk to that will listen and not judge you or think you are nuts.
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By: Kitten S

Kitten S — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 23:47:59 +0000

Actually, you probably can get help. Go onto the Internet and see if they have a community health center that will see you. You’d be surprised at what is available. Also try calling a local church or mentoring group and try to get someone who is willing to hang out with you and help you assimilate better. it can be hard for loners because you generally don’t do well in social situations, but try something one on one. What you really need is a good friend.
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By: Diane B

Diane B — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 23:14:59 +0000

Talk to either your minister or your school counselor. There is professional help available often for free or on a sliding scale. Please remember that the teen and high school years are the most difficult and we change as we grow older. Maybe you could think about joining a club or organization that shares your interest. Or maybe do some volunteer work with the elderly in a care center or nursing home. Working with them may increase your confidence and self esteem. I will remember you in my prayers.
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By: Pnk Lover 4ever

Pnk Lover 4ever — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 23:07:59 +0000

have you tried talking with someone? You can keep a journal or diary.
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